­　　這是一封細(xì)致入微的家書(shū)，非常感人，貴為總統(tǒng)的奧巴馬給女兒的信親切、自然、樸實(shí)、沒(méi)有大話、套話，說(shuō)的全是家常，17條建議都非常具體、每一條都可以做得到，每一條都有益，行文的語(yǔ)氣沒(méi)有作為父親或者總統(tǒng)的“諄諄教導(dǎo)”，從“不在外面吃飯”這類(lèi)小事，到“這個(gè)世界是一個(gè)完全由大家分享的世界，你所做的每件事都會(huì)影響到別人”這類(lèi)普世價(jià)值觀，奧巴馬都說(shuō)得貼切，自然，優(yōu)美。這次特別推出中英文對(duì)照版，希望在學(xué)習(xí)與做人方面，對(duì)您有所裨益。

­　　Life is short. It may feel like it takesforever sometimes, but the reality is that you live, and a short time later,you die. It happens so quickly, many people don’t even realize they had a lifeuntil it’s already over.

­　　生命如此短暫。我們有時(shí)候覺(jué)得生命怎么也走不完，實(shí)際上，你現(xiàn)在活著，過(guò)不了多久，就會(huì)死去。人生真是轉(zhuǎn)眼一瞬間的事情，很多人到臨死前才意識(shí)到這一生已經(jīng)結(jié)束。

­　　Stop Doubting Yourself

­　　停止懷疑自己

­　　If you don’t believe in yourself, nobodywill. Success starts in your mind, and if all you’re doing is putting yourselfdown and predicting failure, it’ll become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Insteadof doubting yourself, think positively. Not only will you be happier and moresuccessful, you’ll spread it to everyone around you.

­　　如果你自己都不相信自己，那沒(méi)人會(huì)相信你。成功源于你的頭腦，如果你所做的是不斷地看扁自己，預(yù)言著未來(lái)的失敗，這就真的會(huì)成為現(xiàn)實(shí)。與其懷疑自己，不如積極的考慮問(wèn)題。不僅會(huì)讓自己更加開(kāi)心和成功，你還能夠感染到周?chē)娜恕?/p>

­　　Stop Being Negative

­　　停止消極

­　　Now that you’re done doubting yourself,stop doubting others. You don’t like when people are critical of you, so stopbeing critical of others. Think about how you make other people feel – even ifyou have good intentions, people don’t like hearing negativity.

­　　現(xiàn)在你不要再懷疑自己了，也別再懷疑身邊的人。你不希望被人對(duì)你挑剔，那么也不要再去挑剔身邊的人。想想你給別人帶來(lái)的什么樣的感受吧——即使出發(fā)點(diǎn)是好的，別人也不想聽(tīng)到那么多消極的事情呀。

­　　Stop Procrastinating

­　　停止拖延

­　　I don’t feel like procrastinating right now– I’ll do it tomorrow. When you procrastinate, you remain stagnant. Whateveryou’re putting off doesn’t go away; resolve the problem, and move on. You’ll bemuch happier in the long run.

­　　我現(xiàn)在不想做，還是留到明天吧。一旦開(kāi)始拖延，其實(shí)你已經(jīng)停滯不前了。你拖延的事情不會(huì)自行解決。解決問(wèn)題，繼續(xù)前行吧。從長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)角度來(lái)說(shuō)你會(huì)更加快樂(lè)。

­　　Stop Being Mean

­　　不要那么刻薄

­　　It’s completely possible to step onsomeone’s toes without meaning to – it happens all the time. There’s no need topile on by purposefully doing mean things, so make a conscious effort to stopbeing mean. If someone wrongs you, let it go. There’s no need to seek vengeanceunless that’s the type of person you want to be.

­　　無(wú)意踩到別人的情況真的有可能會(huì)發(fā)生——常常會(huì)發(fā)生。但沒(méi)必要去處心積慮地做一些不好的事情，所以要有意識(shí)地讓自己不要那么刻薄。如果有人對(duì)你無(wú)理地對(duì)待，隨他們?nèi)ズ昧恕](méi)必要去報(bào)復(fù)，除非你也想成為那一類(lèi)的人。